Succumbing does not mean losing, sometimes the heart needs to succumb to a true victory. For example, when we are asked not to be good, it is slandered by an act that is not at all we do.
Sadness may feel stinging in the heart, but don't need to take it too seriously. No need to be sad, learn sincerely and stay patient, because God knows everything.
Isn't only God's most important judgment in this world? So why do you think about human judgment, whereas God knows the truth.
So whoever we are at the moment, especially for a heart that is experiencing pain because it is not filled properly, even though we don't do it at all, then face the reality that happens with patience.
No need to dissolve in long sadness, because after all God knows the truth very well.
Of course the heart is indeed not good if we are talking badly, let alone the badness we talk about is never done at all. But realize yourself, those who judge badly are only human, not God.
And grieve if those who judge badly are God, because in this world God's judgment influences.
Aim for the heart to always be sincere, do not continue to be sad when other people treat us badly, consider all that training for the heart to be wiser in patience.
But be sad if we cannot treat others well, because what is valuable in life is not about what we receive, but what we give to others.
Absolutely, grieve when we are hated, and the heart is left to deliberately reply with the same hatred, and is allowed to hold grudges.
That's why the heart should not be left inflamed with sadness, when other people treat us not well.
Try to always defeat the ego, so that being sincere and patient can be done easily.
Yes, always learn to understand everything that happens, do not ignore their bad words, because those who understand you will certainly recognize how you really are
In order to be patient and sincere can be done, then include God in every sense so that God always presents good feelings.