Hello !
Today, I would like to share my insights with you on the above-mentioned topic.
Remember that what you read here is only our private opinion.
Well, what's with those idols?
Each of us would want his child to be successful in adult life (whatever it means).
We see in their children future Messi, Ronaldo, great actors, singers or other celebrities from the front pages of news papers.
These are mostly dreams that have not been met by ourselves.
If so many of us have dreamed and failed, can we guarantee success in achieving our children's goals?
Guarantee - NO
Create opportunities - YES
Especially in early child hood, we have a huge impact showing the way to future life successes.
Most of the articles in the media tells us that a child in order to succeed, for example in football, must start training in a nursery from 6, 5, 4, and a year old. To be a great tennis player or tennis player you must start at the age of 5 to run with a racket on the court (preferably twice a day, 5 days a week).
Will this approach guarantee a great career? Probably not.
Earlier, the child will start to see it as an obligation that must be fulfilled in order to meet the parents' ambition. At best, he will be an average person in a given field.
To become someone great in sports, music and any other field, you must LOVE what you do.
Our task as parents is just instilling "passion" for what she does.
How to do it ?
In the initial development of the child, we are the only idols for the child. We are parents.
It does not matter if we are rich or poor, ugly or pretty, fat or thin.
It is us who are "perfect".
It is worth to make the best use of this period because it will depend on what habits will acquire your child who will accompany him in further growing up.
It is known from today that proper eating habits are needed for proper human development.
What can we do, for example?
We often tell the child that fast food is unhealthy, after which we order a pizza in a hurry, buy a hot dog in the city during shopping, etc.
We tell the child to eat fruits, and the child does not know the sight of Dad at all or we have, for example, an apple in his hand.
We chase the child outside to move a little, and sit in front of the TV or computer. Maybe let's move our butts, put on our shoes and let's give an example.
We must give an example, because we are the greatest of our IDOLAs at the beginning of the child's life !!!
greetings
Eve