Dear steemians,
Today, I am very inspired, so I wrote the rest of my first post:
My second resolution 2018 : Be Happy! Step 1: Believe in Yourself 1/2
This subject is close to my heart. And I try to share my ideas in a language that is not mine. I hope the message will be understood;). I do my best to write in English ^^.
Self-confidence is essential and it is built every day of our life!
As an education professional, I worked 10 years with children from 0 to 16 years old. And I can tell you that self-esteem is important.
If you have children, do not miss it! A lack of self-esteem or self-confidence can have a significant impact on a person's life. As adults, we have discernment and we are able to act accordingly. But a child does not have the maturity to build himself alone. He needs the benevolence of adults!
Here are some tips I can suggest to help your child have confidence in him:
- Try to encourage your child to the maximum and compliment him on what he did (even everyday things). Compliments are free and will help your child have confidence in him later.
- Offer him your admiration, accompany his joy and his failures, and pay attention to his feelings. Communication is also an important pillar of education and life in general.
- Be attentive and relieve your child of unnecessary pressure (stress) that will help him focus on the essentials. Offer him activities to relieve his stress and his energy (sports activity, yoga, ...).
This is obviously transposable for adults.
Do not forget to compliment others!
It's free and it's good for your health!
It is valid in the family field but also in a love relationship, friendship or partnership.
If you choose to be in a relationship with someone, try to compliment people as soon as possible. It will feel you better and that person will give you his gratitude. It is magic!
In the professional field, you do not always choose your colleagues, your boss or your partner ...
To facilitate business relations, it is possible to use the same tips. Try to compliment each other using his strengths and perhaps help to improve his weak points.
It is not an easy exercise to congratulate others. Because we are sometimes too focused on our own problems. But when you are more peaceful, it is easier.
I am also at the beginning of the path, nobody is perfect!