This is a usual situation. We all have faced it at one time or another. Someone said something that hurt you to the bone. It could be something about your race, color, family, education or social status. Something that touched us personally. Negative speech hurts. It hurts really bad. Sometimes, we want to retaliate and say something bad in return. True, Maybe we took it too personal and felt bad about it, but we need to realize that everyone have their opinion. Ultimately, what counts is your opinion of yourself. How you see it. The same thing that caused someone to commit suicide may motivate another person to achieve success.
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Never allow negative speech hurt you! View it as a challenge to motivate you towards success.
Never allow anyone spoil your day with unfriendly compliments! There day isnt spoilt too. So you loose when you give in!
Never allow yourself be conquered by the evil, but keep conquering evil with the good!
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Lets talk about it. Tell us some unfriendly complements or negative speech someone told you. How did you react and how should you have reacted?
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"Your makeup looks nice. The last time i saw that type of makeup was in the circus!"