These days, the new modern parents, I tell you!!! They do not leave a single chance to exploit their children, they are not realizing that they are ruining the future of their own children in the long way. Teaching respect to the children is must but side by side the parents should also make their children responsible enough to do some of their work their-selves too. It in-builds confidence among the children to secure a perfect stand in their own life.
Parents are always concerned about their children, their upbringing, their studies, their graduation, post graduation, their moral values, respect for elders, their career, future, and many related concerns. But what these modern parents are doing is, they are over-caring for their children. They want their child to succeed more than anyone else in the world.
They give their child all the luxuries of life without even teaching them the importance of time, money, and the lessons on how did they themselves reached up-to the luxuries they are providing to their children. Parents nature of over-caring acts as a hindrance in their children's growth. Instead of doing all the work of their children, the parents should make them confident and responsible so that they can outgrow happily and provide help to the needy whenever it is needed.
Mumma, Please Wake Me Up Tomorrow Early In The Morning, I Have To Go To Morning Walk!
This is the thing I admit even I do till now. I ask my mother to wake me up early in the morning if it is needed. I still cannot wake up by myself. Okay, now let me explain the point. The school going children are a large dependent on their parents for waking them up. In the morning time, everyone of us feels damn hard sleepy. Isn't it? So, in the case where the children do feel lazy to wake up and go to school, the parents had to make consistent efforts to wake them up in every possible way.
What we learn in our childhood continues for long. So, that is why it is said that everything is to be taught from the very beginning. If your child is somewhere between 13-14 years of age, teach him/her to wake up early in the morning. When your child comes of the responsible age, start teaching him things. Even how to dress up for school all by himself. What children do is, they wake up late and then rush into things. In that rush, they even forget to take their breakfast. Indulging in good habits from the beginning will help the children in becoming responsible. Also, then there will be a great relief for their parents.
Mumma, I am hungry, Damn Hungry, Please Cook Anything Fast For Me
This point is not highlighting on giving the children all the cooking knowledge. This point is just focusing on the fact that even children should know little things related to cooking so that in the case of emergency they do not feel helpless. Children should know how to make tea, how to clean the utensils, how to make some normal food and normal drinks, children should know how to cut the vegetables, how to serve fruits, and they should also stand and watch their mother cooking things so that they realize that cooking food is not that easy, it takes full mind, devotion, dedication and consistency.
When children will watch their mother cooking food for them and for the other family members, they will realize the efforts it take to do it all. And, after that they will sure respect the person cooking and caring a lot for them.
Mumma, I Am Going On A School Trip, Please Pack My Bag
It's my genuine request to all the parents out there, please impart all the basic knowledge in your children required by them to stand big. No matter you people are going on a family vacation, or your children are going on a school trip, ask your children to pack their bag all by themselves. Ask them to put all the other stuff in the bag other than the clothes which include the toothbrushes, shampoo, toothpaste, brush, soap, face-wash and the other toiletries.
Even when the children go to school, they are dependent on their parents for packing their school bag. Sometimes, it happens like when parents pack the bag, in the hush-hush, some or the other things are left unpacked. And when children return from school, they blame their parents for not keeping some book, pen, pencil, etc, etc..Parents should leave the packing of the school bag up-to their children only. Children should realize that their parents already do so much for them. And they should take little-little responsibilities to somehow make their parents a little free.
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