The ultimate guide to beinig irrestible in 2017
Just like every other area in life, the dating game is getting more competitve and way more complicated. But you've got to be in to win it, right? And it doesn't matter if you're single or in a relationship; when it comes to women you can't afford to be off your game.
Step 1 - Shine Online
Digital dating - I'm talking Tinder, texts and flirting emails . is crucial in setting the tone. You can0t afford to balls it up becaouse every time she looks at her phone there will be a notification reminding her that you're either not worth the effort to unlock her phone or you're the guy she can't wait to reply to.
Here are a few tips to help you out...
Don't list what you're looking for in a woman.
You're not writing a shopping list, we are not items to be ordered.
Don't be overly charming.
Romantic can look despirate, especially when we,re looking for reasong not to date you.
Dont be upbeat your profile.
We don't know you yet so we won't feel sorry for you. We'll just think you're loser.
Do get your mates to check your grammar.
Spelling mistakes we can get over but misusing their and there, or your and you're is major turn off.
Don't be the 2am 'are you out' guy.
If you want to have sex with us, text us at a normal time. we're more likely to indulge in a polite booty call.
Step 2 - Give Good Chat
Ok so you matched online, you've had some flirty text banter and you're finally meeting up in real life. I'm sure you've got to this stage many times, but the 2017 you is taking the next step, and waking up next to that girl you really like.
How? Don't be 'Creepy guy'. The man all women dread sitting opposite on a date is Creepy Guy. He freaks us out makes us uncomfortable and the likelihood of a second date or physical contact is non-existent.
Creepy guy asks inapproprate questions like 'how many guys have you sleept with?' or 'do you know how to embalm a dead body?'
This is what you should be doint instead. Just aks us question and acutally listen to our answers: don't be arrogant and just talk about yourself.
Step 3 - Be The Best She's Ever Had
We 100% talk to our mates about how good or bad guys are in bed.
However, the longer we've been with a man and the more srioud it gets, the less we share, and the less intimate the details become. So it's the first few months of doing it that you really need to nail. When it comes to sex, you really need to establish that you're not an arsehole pretty quickly. Don't be selfish, no woman likes a man who is all take and no give. Don't be weird about wearing a condom, especially if we've asked you to put one on. Never criticse us or what we're doing, it's too soon to be offering pointers. Dont push something if we've said we're not comfortable doing it, and please do not push our head down for a blowjob. It's the absolute worst. Now we know you're nice boy, it's time to dial up your sex God.
Thanks for reading and have a good day / night!