Hello my dear friends
I always think of you and think about what I could write to you today.
Melancholy is necessary and essential ingredient or rather a predisposition to articulate what the unknown heart.
Somewhere I read "If you meet someone without scars, know that he never fought." And indeed, inexperienced is the one whose skin is smooth and clean, he does not know what it means to go for all or nothing. She's not lain awake the night in uncertainty even wake up with the hope that maybe this time still succeed.
The deepest level that drives our actions recognizes only two emotions - fear and love. Love and fear are parts of the same polarity that are constantly intertwined in our lives. In the interval between these two emotions lie all the others. Love and fear are the alpha and omega. When we wondered whether love hurts, from us will speak fear.
The problem is that we do not know love without conditions. We just did not accustomed to this kind of love, even though he is the only real. It is this conditionality creates fear in us, the fear that we have to be such and such in order to be elected and that we have to give to a certain way that we say that we know how to love.
Ultimately, when we compared and experiencing fear, the foundation of our work is not attitude, but a sense of fear that haunts us. Because of this feeling of doing the wrong action, because of that feeling we act rashly and impulsively, and because of him disturb the relations in which we find ourselves.
Fear is an emotion that is closed, traps, chokes, slides and playing, while the love emotion that opens up, it goes down, breathe, transmit, spread and shared.
So if we feel that love hurts, if indeed experiencing love?
The answer is - no.
The first relationship to be established is the relationship with ourself. The first thing we need to learn is to love, respect and take care of yourself. Only when we realize our value will be able to learn about the others'. It is because of ignorance of our own value feel the fear in the moments that should be blessed, in moments of charity. For fear the Greeks, we close and try to take as many pieces of the person with whom we are in comparison. Due to fear of destroying relationships because they do not realize our expectations about what the other person should be. Instead of taking care of ourself in relation, we think of others. The focus of us takes the wrong target, wrong target and then start destroying relationships.
The purpose of the relationship is not in the capture of another person, but the conscious decision that part of ourselves we want to investigate, demonstrate and revive. Relationships serve us to quickly move forward to grow faster and faster take off illusory curtain that stand in the way of our liberation. Relations are here to show us who we are, because having someone next to you actually have a mirror that tells us what we can be, we do not want to be and what we are.