Why do you have to wait for others to make a move before you can decide on what to do? Or do you think life is a chess game that you have to wait for your opponent to play before you play? Still remember that at a point in chess game both players might not be able to move because of the decision they had made. Since you are not playing games why do other people's lives tend to affect most of the decision you make in life whereas you might have gotten the best out of it, if you had taken your path. Come to think of it, is it because of the promise that many a times were never fulfilled, or the high hopes they gave to you which turned into a big depression, or the mansion that turned out to be a tension. Then what?, because I need to know why someone created for a "purpose" will wait for another man to fulfill what he/she would have done even with a closed eyes.
I know this will be a bitter pill to swallow but that is why I am here, do you know that most people just Come into our lives not really because they want to add value to our lives but just to take advantage of us mostly psychologically to bring us down and torment our lives. Wait did you just say that they devil? Lol, but you gave them the chance to do so? And remember that the devil only attack VALUABLE things. And the only reason why they are able to manipulate you, is because you gave them that time and chance to do so because if you were busy in your life others would not be able to hijack your God given time.
Nonetheless, that does not mean you should be a lone wolf still remember the power of togetherness but becareful of the people you give chance to your personal life, know who you share your thoughts with. Moreever, its also selfish to not be for yourself too. Know the type of people you put your life on hold for their seek. To avoid being treated horribly because of someone that didn't value your sacrifice. The minute you realized how much of you have sacrificed over the years and dreams you had put on hold for people and start living for yourself, I promise you that the knives, the axes got sharper and the blows will start to come in rapidly. Just promise yourself that no more will your sacrifice affect your own life, waiting and doing for people and putting your life and dreams on hold.
I end with the quote of BILL GATES, life is not fair, get used to it.
