When you have a realization dogmatic religion is not for you then you have the choice to do things because they are right, not because an angry god told you it's something you must do or suffer the consequences. Many people use scripture to decide who is 'good' and who is 'bad', in other words whom to treat well and whom to treat poorly. Perhaps along with the spiritual revelation you've also had a political one in that whatever informed, consenting adults decide to do amongst themselves is for them and them alone to judge. Perhaps 'Do onto others as you'd have others do onto you' is all the spiritual and legal law we need. If so, welcome to spiritual and political libertarianism.