That's what friends are for ...
Spell out the meaning of a togetherness in a relationship. Either with family, brotherhood, friendship or even with a spouse. Togetherness becomes an important thing in building a relationship. Obviously we can never really live alone in this life. We can not be a selfish human being, who feels able to do everything alone, who feels no need of others.
Life is a causal cycle. Doing good, sharing in togetherness, establishing a positive relationship is the choice. Who planted rice will grow rice instead?
A togetherness also can not be forced. Although there is a reciprocal relationship, like a symbiosis but on the basis of willingness. Because in establishing a social relationship we must learn how the importance of mutual understanding, listening, willing to share and willing to care. Because then we will be able to interpret a togetherness. Happiness in a togetherness is when happy with togetherness itself. It means that the relationship is a kindness.
But sometimes in a relationship we must be able to create space and distance. Take the distance we need. Leaving the room in a relationship. Creating a space for expression. A room we need to move freely. A distance we need for introspection. See what we have given, from a wider perspective. When we get too close, our point of view is too narrow. As a result our judgment becomes more subjective. As we move away, we can see more thoroughly. This is needed to be more objective.
Because togetherness itself does not mean we are always together physically, but more on the psychological connection. Not always we will always meet and together, maybe someday we will be separated. Indeed something is created to have a spouse of its own, it seems like the Meeting and Farewell ... And may togetherness will always exist, together with the beautiful period of the engraved and the sweetness of the recorded memories.
We still have to be prepared with all possibilities and whatever happens. When our intentions are something good then the end result will be good.
For Your Friend anywhare.,,,