Do you able to gain pains?????

We often want to have all but no pain. we forget the beautiful quote ''No pain no gain". we usually want to have a perfect relationship but don't want to give time, priority, sacrifices and lot more. we want to have a beautiful dream house but don't want o work hard to be able ourselves for that. I think if we make ourselves able to sustain pains like our legend Edhi sb did lot to humanity by sacrifices. He devoted his life to humanity if we read about his autobiography we will come to know that he had lots of pain in his life in order to be able to work for others.