Today I was inspired by a post from 
Check it out 👉 Married life(Why is it scary for some people?)
What do people usually expect in marriage?
- Living like in a fairytale where the story always end with the phrase... 'Hapilly ever after.'
What are the facts in marriage life?
- It will always start with, There will be...(and the last word will end with the letter 'S'.
Can you guess?
- Let me tell you my guesses.
- There will be arguements
- There will be missunderstandings
- There will be loneliness
Why?
💠To disagree is easier than to disagree.
Question : Do you agree?
- Answer 1 : Yes. (Usually there will be no more question)
- Answer 2 : No. (The next question will be 'Why?')
💠To ignore is easier than to understand.
Question : Why can't you understand me?
- Answer 1 : (Walk away)
- Answer 2 : Could you please explain to me what's going on? (And the conversation become long sometimes a bit of shouting with a lot of crying and etc.)
💠Responsibility sometimes cause short separation.
To live need to eat 👉 To eat need food 👉 Food need money 👉 Money need work 👉 Work need dedication 👉 Dedication give good reputation 👉 Good reputation give better work 👉 Better work give better money 👉 Better money give better food 👉 better food give better nutritious food to eat 👉 Better nutritous food give better life 👉 Better life cause responsibility separated into two (Family and Work)
- The short separation I meant was when we need to work or the need to to far way from our family due to work.
There is also...
Arguement can also be a channel of good understanding between two people because of the loneliness.
And the truth behind expectation...
Hapilly ever after can exist if there is a give and take between spouse