So many of those things that I do and that I think will improve who I am and how I feel about myself are meant to fail. Yes, I do them for years and years just so I can fail over and over again. Finding ways to accept who I am and how I have been regardless of how I label the experience is a great part of why I am on my current journey. I am here in this world of dualities to overcome what isn’t working for myself. To see those areas of my life where I have accepted a low standard way of living and to then grow beyond those limitations. My higher self experiences unity with everything. The physical body is designed to experience duality. Duality is an experience my higher self can not have without me. I am my higher self's physical extension. Experiencing duality, however, doesn’t need to be a bad or mixed experience. How I interpret the polarities is how I interpret the world around me.
There is a lot of power in failing. The complete you knows this and uses this as a catalyst for growth. The complete you lives from a space that is bigger than the space that holds the definition of what you consider failing means. You live in a reality based upon polarities… good and bad, hot and cold, nice and rude, etc. There is an endless combination of polarities here as every form and energy on this planet has an opposite and every combination of those forms and energies have opposites. Not only are there opposites, there are an unlimited number of possibilities between the opposites themselves where each possibility has its own opposite possibility and those opposite possibilities contain themselves an unlimited spectrum of other possibilities with, you may have guessed…, their own opposites. This goes on and on. Every set of opposites holds a space for an infinite array of polarities that are themselves infinite. Infinity within infinity… interesting.
Failing does not equal the feeling we associate with failing. The looser feeling we have when we fail was put there by your upbringing, by how you are expected to behave. YOU are your best and most qualified guide. Get in touch with yourself and decide for yourself how to behave! Failing is a major building block of life. It is life. Without failing there would be no journey.
Failing is an incredible tool that was designed as a part of this life to experience the flavors this life has to offer. Failing puts things in perspective. An other word for failing is growing or expanding. Every experience, no matter how you label them, makes you more. Start to see failure as a stepping stone and start to love the recognizing of stepping stones as it is the platform that assists you to elevate yourself to the next level. It is impossible to become less. Let go of the false feelings we associate with failing. See that they are artificial and are not who you are. Use them to lift you up not to beat yourself down.
Get beyond the misinterpreted idea that winning must be good and loosing must be bad. Love winning, love the stepping stone created by loosing. You are readying yourself to live in a world that is made up out of more than just this structure of duality. You are readying yourself to add to your reality the viewpoint of the divine. You are ready for more. You are done experiencing the old. It’s time for the new. This is why you will see old controlling structures fall apart. This will often look like chaos but do not let this fool you. The chaos represents the (not) letting go of the old energies. Letting go of old energies makes room for beauty. Reconnect with the guidance from within. You can not unexpand. It is your wish to move forward and it is happening now. A beautiful new Earth is waiting.
Your beautiful new Earth is waiting for you. It is yours to claim, it is yours to keep.
Herbert