The love:
A good love must have a profound ending; a good life must have a decent ending.
We often don't love ourselves enough, often through the people who love us, to find out how good we are. We finally rely on that person to make us believe that we deserve to be loved.
The life:
I have a simple standard for measuring happiness. Is it capable of saying no to things that I don't like.
When there are important choices and things in life, I usually only ask myself: You finally want to engrave this sentence on your tombstone.
Some things that are difficult to understand have faded over time, but this is not "forgiveness," and this is "forget it."