firstly, head to your nearest reggae bar in southeast Asia. the trick is to find a cute, well presented child, give him your friend's cute puppy to play with, and wait until they both come to a hard earned rest after much play. lastly you need to mercifully stumble across a pillow scattered with some sage advice.
after that it's just a question of perspective... :)
this photograph, taken at a beach bar on koh phangan, thailand, is original content.