Having a sphere of influence and providing a place where others can build their own confidence also gives you a better life. It is how we generate the future and make our own lives full.
Everyone has baggage that keeps them from being the best they can be. Your job is to check those bags for them (or at least make sure they are carry-on). It will help to bring out the best of that person because he will understand that he is not doing it all alone. He will feel much better about himself and your conversation, as well as your connection with him.
Helping someone feel good about him or herself can be as simple as saying “Thanks.” You would be surprised at how many people feel they go through their lives without recognition. A pat on the back, a handwritten thank-you note, and a small token of appreciation are just a few of the ways you can lift someone to a higher level without investing a ton of time and energy.
When was the last time you thanked your loved ones for just being part of your life? Have you recognized the people who work with you and help you make
that part of your life as easy as possible? Then there are those whom we only see once in a while, or, in the digital age, never see. How do you let them know you appreciate their participation in your world? I make sure to write personal notes when it’s appropriate and fully acknowledge their contribution to what I do.
I find that most people are pleased with the recognition, and I also feel good about myself for I thinking about doing it and following through. It can only help to make your relationships—personal or business—better. Giving confidence through recognition comes back to you in many ways.
Helping people feel better about themselves will foster good in every way, shape, and form. Give it a try. Your life, and the lives of those you recognize, will be better for it.
Keep up the good work!
“Wherever a man turns he can find someone who needs him.”—Albert Schweitzer