Gentlemen, If you are dealing with heartbreak
Keep going. Some cold hard facts
-There is no "one"
-Your ex is gonna end up with someone else
-Your future should not have been built around a woman in the first place
-Pull yourself together
Yes, shit hurts. It can hurt BAD
But being a fucking emotional wreck gets tired real quick
The fact that you based your entire happiness and self esteem around a relationship and have NOTHING else valuable to you in life
That was your mistake
Apparently quite a few got broken up with because I've been getting the same message for 2 weeks now
"Bro, I don't know what to do, Im a mess, I can barely function"
FUCKING GO DEADLIFT AND STOP BASING YOUR EXISTENCE AROUND FEMALE VALIDATION
Guess what,
There's always another girl,
There's always someone thats younger and hotter
And unless you're getting divorce raped and/or have a psycho ex stalking you trying to kill you
YOURE FINE.
Embrace the emotional numbness for awhile
There's ton of amazing women.
Yeah, read that again.
There are LOTS AND LOTS OF AWESOME WOMEN
You can find another one.
If you've unfucked yourself and made yourself into a Man of Gravity, it shouldnt be that difficult
Love is not a finite resource, its Infinite
Do not be an emotional 13 year old girl crying about how you'll never be able to love or be close with anyone ever again
Life breaks us all, welcome to earth
Shit hurts and no one cares and you die at the end.
Stop treating relationships like a Zero Sum game that you "won at" because you were "so lucky" to find a girl who "chose you" and you cant imagine why she'd be with you
That's most of your attitudes whether you want to admit it or not
Thats garbage
"Havent YOU ever had your heartbroken?"
Sure I have
But my ability to love is not determinate by a relationship
My ability to Love is INFINITE because Love is a quality of BEING
You LIVE IT OUT
There is nothing to subtract from
Actually now that I think about this, Most of you probably need to work on your Souls
A Finite love paradigm is fucking misery.
No wonder you feel so depressed
