What we say we believe is one thing; what we think we believe may be yet another. What we actually do is the clearest expression of what we really believe.
Someone will say, "I believe I should not be having sex with a person I'm not married to," but a few days later, she will come back and say, "Sir, I have done it again."
When there's a dissonance between proclaimed belief and actual behavior, I don't blame people. I understand.
Does that say go and do same? No. Does it mean don't do so? No, either.
Whatever you do or don't do, this is your life, how long will you remain a victim?