Every big thing that basically begins from a small thing, sometimes it is begun by a thing that we underestimated. Basically, that little thing is part of ourself, depending on how we make it big and real. Now we are living in the midst of an increasingly advanced and sophisticated era, lest we become just others for a reason as afraid is not accepted by our environment and society. For me, more good to be yourself than to be someone else.
We do not need to feel pessimistic being ourselves, we do not need to disguise and pretend to be someone else. Be ourselves because that's the best. The only way to be ourself is to love ourself.
Besides, we have to ask ourselves "Why should we be ourselves?" The questions we ask ourselves will make us realize that we also need to fall in love with ourselves.
Keep in mind that every feeling must have a reason. So it is with us why we should love ourselves, respect ourselves and think which one is best for ourselves and what is not for us. Beside we also have to often introspection ourselves and correct what things we hate from ourselves.
If necessary we should write the reasons why we should be ourselves, love ourselves, respect ourselves and have to do what is best for ourselves. It's so unfair if we love other people but we do not care about ourselves.
Thanks and Regards