Who helps us when we’re down?
For most people, it would be their friends. Family. Their loved ones. Everybody that has a close relationship with them.
In my case, it was motivational videos. Among other activities such as fitness, or just getting busy and forgetting about it. Processing it might be better. Whatever.
I was sick and tired of feeling sad for myself and being alone.
So, I stopped.
Now, I am just lonely. Not alone.
Aren’t we all a bit lonely? Empty inside?
When there’s no one to turn to who do you choose?
Sure you can go inside.
But humans aren’t made for isolation. It only works so long.
There are some good motivational videos out there.
The ones that kick you in the butt. Make you cry. Question everything.
A lot of people seem to hate on motivational speakers.
I know, NLP isn’t supported by science.
Others hate how those people make their money.
Only giving out advice and screaming at people they could do better.
But they build people.
We shouldn’t forget that.
Who knows how many great things have been achieved through the impact one of their speeches had on somebody.
Millions of views on the YouTube videos.
At least one of those views has to be up to something great.
Listening or watching these videos won’t fix all your problems. Who in their right mind would suggest that?
Does it give you some direction? Sure does.
It’s a good way to get outside help and inspiration if your inner circle can’t provide it. Given that your inner circle exists in the first place.
Try listening to some of those videos and think what the message is.
Ask why more. Why?