self-discovery: the search for the I
who am i? A question that every human being at any time on this world. But all always have an answer to that? At the latest with the education of our consciousness and with the onset of puberty behind we ask ourselves and our behavior. We define our individuality, because we want to distinguish us from the society. But it is not always us immediately and without any problems. The path of self-discovery is often stony and so lets do not aim to come in time of his life. In modern times this problem appears.
The reason for this is that we look after our self in the wrong place. The focus is on the outside, more and more the world around us. And here we are looking for us, in a society where we always need to be better, faster and stronger than the
self-discovery
self-discovery takes time
. We know what the Environment expects of us, and try to meet these standards. We will displace what we ourselves have come to expect from us, what we see from the society, so that our life is worth living. So it is no wonder that the self-discovery so cannot function.
The focus of conscious self-discovery
can you still remember the time shortly before graduation? They were among those who have long knew what they want to do after school? Or were you one of those that haven't even had no idea and envious of the goods exactly knew your dream job? Both a blessing and a curse hung in this case with the progress of self-discovery. During a clearly knew what you lies and fun, others were still on the way. But how do these differences? An important part of the self-discovery is certainly one's own consciousness. We need to be aware of who we are. What exactly does that mean? Each one of us must and observe its behavior on the path of self-discovery to come forward.
Self-discovery: self-reflection and self-
awareness is thus also love self-reflection. In order to continue the journey of discovery of our ego and our behavior, we must reflect and analyze. Why do we get mad when our Chef admonished us? Why do we find no solution to a problem that complicates our lives for a long time? We are about even in the way? In the case of self-determination, however, it is not that we criticize our behavior from the ground up. In the foreground stands alone the knowledge about us, why we do everything to respond and act as we do in certain situations. This is on the way to the i to accept. Because in order to get to your destination, it is crucial for each and every one of us, to love themselves. It is only when we accept this love to find us and ourselves, we are also able to accept responsibility for all our actions and our feelings.
Self-discovery: a little exercise
an easy way of self-discovery is to write your own CV. It should be just make sure to leave out anything and everything as chronologically. On the other hand, it doesn't matter if the cv is from bullet points or as a flowing text is written. But what should be a curriculum vitae for the self-discovery? Through the writing, we may sometimes have information such as the links, shortcuts, and causes us to recognize that previously were not aware of this. Furthermore, it is also possible to certain questions, the process of self-discovery. Here are a few examples:
Do you know your strengths and weaknesses?
How would you describe yourself for a person you do not know?
What is an ideal day for you?
What are you particularly proud of in your life?
What do you think?
What was your childhood?
Do you have a little fear?
What does happiness mean to you?
What is most important to you in your life?
The catalog of questions you can of course at any time on the path of self-discovery. Only honest answers are crucial.