Happy Steemians!
Have you been feel sad lately?
“When everyone else falls apart, I’m there to fix their problems and make them feel better. But then—and this is the part that few people see—I go home to my room and cry.”—Kellie.
“When I’m down, I isolate myself. If I get invited somewhere, I come up with an excuse not to go. I do a good job at hiding my sadness from my family. They think I’m fine.”—Rick.
Have your thoughts ever been similar to those of Kellie or Rick?
If so, don’t hastily conclude that there’s something wrong with you. The fact is, everyone gets sad now and then. Even the happiest people in the world.
In some cases, you may know why you are sad; in other cases, you may not. “You don’t have to be in a horrible situation to feel sad,” says 19-year-old Anna. “It can come on at any time, even if your life is trouble free. It’s weird, but it happens!”
Regardless of the cause—or even if there doesn’t seem to be one—what can you do when sadness holds you in its grip?
Try the following:
Talk about it.
In the midst of a turmoil, speak in the bitterness of your soul!
Kellie: The relief I feel after talking to someone is amazing. Finally, someone knows what I’m going through. They can lower the rope and pull me out of the pit—saved at last!
Write about it.
When sadness clouds your outlook on life, you might want to try putting your thoughts on paper. Like what a good proverb says, writing about such feelings can help you to safeguard practical wisdom and thinking ability.
Heather: Writing helps me to organize the mental clutter that accumulates from sadness. When you can express your feelings and sort them out, the sadness is less overwhelming.
Pray about it.
When you pray about your concerns, ‘the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your heart and your mental powers.’
Esther: I was trying to figure out why I felt so down, and I couldn’t. I asked Jehovah to help me to be happy. I was sick of being sad when I had no reason to be. I finally broke the cycle. Never underestimate the power of prayer!
With assistance and effort, you can get out of a deep pit of sadness
Suggestion: Pour out your heart in the open, to people dear to you and ask him to help you identify the root of your sadness.
In addition to the suggestions mentioned earlier, you have to fill your mind with upbuilding thoughts that can be gleaned from happy source that can have a positive effect on your feelings.
When sadness won’t go away
“On some mornings,” says Ryan, “I feel that it would be easier just to stay in bed and avoid having to get up and face another pointless day.” Ryan suffers from clinical depression, and he’s not alone. Studies suggest that about 1 in 4 youths suffers from some type of major or minor depression before reaching adulthood.
How can you find out if you suffer from depression?
Some symptoms include a pronounced change in mood and behavior, social isolation, diminished interest in almost all activities, a significant change in eating habits and sleeping patterns, and intense feelings of worthlessness or unwarranted guilt.
Of course, nearly everyone has one or more of those symptoms at some time or another. But if symptoms persist for more than a couple of weeks, why not talk to your parents about getting a checkup? A physician can help determine if your sadness has a medical cause.
If you do suffer from clinical depression, it is nothing to be ashamed of. With treatment, many sufferers have begun to feel better—perhaps the best they have felt in a long time. Whether your sadness is caused by depression or not, remember the comfort that there is someone who really care and near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit.