In order to get a happy married life, you need to take a closer look at your marriage partner as it becomes realistic.
Especially the three points to introduce this time can be an important problem that could cause divorce.
Number 1 -
Checking his economic situation It
seems that he may hear the opinion that "Do not choose men by money", but his realistic thinking about marriage is a point where his economic situation can not be ignored.
Especially when you think "I want to become a full-time housewife after marriage!" Moreover, even though he thinks "I want to make a baby soon", it may be difficult depending on his economic situation.
It is not that I have to marry a millionaire.
However, you should as well know how much he is paid each month.
Number 2-
Checking his sloppy part
I feel before his marriage that his "sloppy" part is not to cure just because he got married.
Rather, the possibility of escalating more and more will be higher.
In particular, depending on its degree, it may be necessary to make a decision to give up if it is not suitable as a marriage partner, depending on its degree, "women who are sloppy" and "men who are sloppy with money" and "men who drink in alcohol".
It is also important to listen to the opinions of friends and family who know him.
Number 3-
Check his mother-in-law
His mother-in-law is better not to check her before engagement.
The wife's affair problem is also one of the troubles that women have after marriage, and because of its compatibility, it can be a crisis of divorce.
Let 's examine what kind of person it is before you want to cry, "I'm sorry to see such a mother - in - law' s retirement age!
How was it?
After getting married, in order to avoid becoming "this was not supposed to be!", It is important to keep the early marriage feeling and chuck him with calm.
Once you got married ... you can not go back to it easily!