Getting married is the most excited, memorable and happiest moment of our lives, specially for us womens, and being a mother and a wife is a huge responsibility. This is our life design, every man has a woman and every family has children. When my life turns into these serious commitment and situations things began to change,our physical appearance change, our time management changes and of course our rule in life change. Having our own family is a the greatest thing happen in our lives, and it not a big joke at all.
When we get married we cannot avoid the feeling of curiosity and we often ask ourselves if we are ready or not. But the fact that you are in to it we have to embrace it. Time passes by I have totally understand the situation being a wife and a mother. I just learn that being a married person youre time is equally divided, you have time to your children and a time your partner. I was married for almost 10 years now and I was so glad to have a good husband and two little naughty children. like my mother I always wanted to give the best for them. As the saying goes " mother knows best" and I agree to that.
As a mother we wanted to have the best to our children and help them feel that they were taking care of. We always wanted to check them everytime if mosquitoes bite their skin, if the food that they eat is safe and healthy, if they wash their hands carefully, if they wore clean clothes, if they look presentable, if they drink clean and fresh water, if they play safe toys and most of if they are okay and fine. We want all the best for them and that's the exact role of being a mother or as parent. Sometimes if they are not feeling well, we get nervous and pressured, I remember my mother laughing at me when one time my son get sick. She taught me to relax and instead do the best thing, I know some of our fellow steemian mothers can relate to, funny but at the same time it could give us lesson indeed. We all wanted to give the best for them, and one thing that we most treasured in married life is when you know that your having your first baby, that was the moment that for us mothers we will never forget, specially the joy and happiness brought through it.
As a wife, we all wanted to give the best for our husband, our rule is to serve and took care of him. Preparing all things he need for his work, serving him the best food after a long hours of working, reminding him to keep safe always, and most of saying I love you everyday and every night to keep the fire burning and help him to remind that you're there for him as what you have said to each other in your vows.
To all steemian mothers and wife's let us remember that we are in a lifetime commitment and being what we are now is gift from the man above, no matter what happened aim for the best to your children to you husband and for the sake of your family. Nothing compares to feeling of giving love and being loved by your children and your husband. Treasured all those things and be happy. And for this month of March that we celebrate national women's celebratrion, let us give ourselves a value, as salute of being who we are and what we can. that would be all thank you for your time reading this. God bless us all.