First of all, I am sorry for your loss. Secondly for us who stay alive a food of thought to ponder: Do I treat my most loved ones in the manner that they will miss me when I die? Do I show them how much I care them?
Often in life we are way too busy with nonesense and forget what is important, the people we cherish so dearly. No moment is granted for us.
RE: WE DON'T CHOOSE OUR DEATH