Watching the daily, and I do mean daily threats and harassment is taken its toll on my thoughts. No one has spoken a word to him since early August, and I do mean none of us have said a word to him through apps or in person. I replied to you when asked about him and I told my ex he is dangerously close to becoming apart of our divorce. That's it! I think that is all his contact with our communication. Sweeping problems under the carpet didn't seem to work out for me with one of the community members who had boundary issues and it disrupted everything I tried to accomplish with my life. It decimated my life, to be honest.

I suppose we both gained perspective on situations like this. I learned what it is like to have people turn their back on me like what happened with you and the stalker, and you learned how people viewed you while you were having problems with your stalker. I wonder if that stalker went on to hurt or violate others.

You mentioned friendship, regardless of our social standing, if I knew you were in this situation I would be right there by your side. I think you know that.