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We all have a victory story to tell. How we over came a difficult trial,healed,moved ahead,success stories and even present difficult situations. All these have a way of lifting someone else up and helping others stay strong or overcome difficult situations. A friend of mine felt better today after I shared with her something I was passing through. It happened that she was going through the same thing and even if the confession we made didn't solve our problem,it made us feel better. I can still remember vividly,during one of my trials,people tried to make me feel better but the only thing that worked was when a friend of mine showed me a lady that was doing well but passed through same challenge i was facing. i said to myself "if she made it,i can." that was enough vibe to keep me strong, your story can do the same for someone.
We have seen a lot of suicide cases recently,what are we doing to eliminate or atleast reduce subsequent occurrence of suicide?? We flood people with pictures of us looking perfect and wonder why they commit suicide, well.....they think everyone's life is perfect but theirs. This is my little way of healing the world but I can't do it without you,let's join hands to heal the world.
All i need from you is your story,you can choose to be anonymous or not, what matters most is that it's not fiction.
There are also people that all they need is a listening ear and they don't feel comfortable opening up to someone they know. THE CHRONICLES WITH 
HER STORY
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I am not happy,i found myself this way.All I wanted was love. When I was 18 I had my first boy friend,my very first time of feeling what it is like to love and be loved. After two years,by accident or mistakenly as he said,he slept with my best cousin,someone I was linking him with to be friends since she is my best cousin. He broke my heart and came back begging,I accepted him back because of his family members,they are so nice and I asked my male friends for their opinion and they said the guy is courageous and worth a second chance for opening up.
Things never remained the same after I accepted him back,I didn't love him the same way,I felt tired cause it seemed like I was forcing myself to keep the relationship and holding on to just the guys love. I broke up with him, although God said we should forgive and forget but I just couldn't continue with him, although we remained friends and he still calls. I engaged in other relationships,had disappointments,heart breaks,you know shit happens. The next guy I met after The first one was playing with me,the next one.....we found out that we are both AS and I was even mandated to attend his wedding.
The first guy kept coming back and was like a shoulder I could lean on but I still couldn't get back with him,I dodged his calls. I never ever felt my love life would be like this, I felt that the first person I fell in love with will be the last,that the first person I kissed will be the last. I love easily but can hate easily too. My love life is complicated,I don't know what I want. Most guys don't seem to see the little girl in me that just needs love,they feel I want the wealthy big guy with high standard. I doubt if I can ever love again,I just pray God can help me one day to forget everything and start all over again.
She kind of felt better after sharing her story with me and is more positive about finding true love.
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