Complaining, considering humans have a sense of fatigue. Especially when the ordeal comes. But is not complaining did not give any change? God-given trials must be adapted to his abilities. Know, God's research is far more sophisticated than anything in the world. Trials are also given a purpose. God knows that you deserve a chance to become a better person. Why can trials be considered not troublesome, but exactly spelled a stepping stone to make yourself better?
Life is like studying in school. There is a process of learning, practice, and exams to move up the classroom. Learning and practice are done every day. While the school exam is only held at a certain time according to his own schedule. If life is like a school, then the ordeal is like a test before going to class. God needs to first test how worthy you are to level up. Parameters used also vary, but clearly there needs to be your own desire to never give up and always work hard.
See more successful friends, neighbors have a new car, even a boss who rides, you envy almost every day. It seems life is not fair because you are always down. Then the ordeal comes to you. Your car is being hit by people, you have to get back on board. In the office you also got terminated. Complete already trials of your life. Then you imagine the past. Where your car can still be used even though it is so messy. You can still work even though repeatedly revised. From this side, you become more appreciative of your own life. That you already feel enough or even excessive. It's just that you always look up and never give thanks for what you have.
Besides being able to make you more grateful, this ordeal will bring you to the red thread of life's journey. When you have passed the trial, how much you will feel proud of yourself. How tears and grievances have paid off with a sense of relief. In the future, you will not be an easy figure to complain but instead become someone who dare to face the trials with a strong.
You will never know how great you are before being hit by trials. You used to think you were strong and tough. But after being tested like a pole lost its pegs. So in addition to knowing how far to survive, this trial can also measure how much self-motivation you can generate. Because when nobody else can support you, you alone need to change that role.
You still remember how your mother's father struggle when you ask to continue school. While the other siblings also need milk intake. Want it to force, but you can not bear it. Finally you are forced to pull over a year to collect coins for your education. Now, when you are independent and have more sustenance, you also decide to teach less fortunate children. Maybe someone else will sneer at you as a too idealistic young man. But for you the sense of empathy can not be dammed anymore. Jobs can still be searched, but the opportunity to teach underprivileged children may be just once.
All your energy is drained away to get out of the ordeal. But still there is no sign of your life so much better. Finally, you cry for yourself. But, then after the tears subsided, at some point you feel there is a light that illuminates. The upbeat side is slowly open and growing from within. You realize that trials will not always lock you up. He also does not always let you get stuck. Because you believe every trial must have its own beautiful side, like a rainbow that is painted after the rain stops.
It seems there are still a few people who have fun but still remember God. Often, they should be slapped to test first to remember who the creator. Maybe when the ordeal comes you belong to such a group. When you are upstairs, let's not remember God, remember other people just do not. Then after this ordeal comes your way, you just remember to whom to seek help other than friends who start to leave you. Be thankful you have been given the opportunity to enjoy this ordeal. For you have returned to the path that once left you for the sake of worldly pleasures. Abstinence, more appreciation, a more mature mind to return closer to Him is a gift that you will get after graduating from temptation. If this good thing will be waiting for you at the end of the struggle later, what's unfortunate if you give up early?