There is a saying that no pancake is too big to burn into. This is the philosophy: you can bake a big cake, but no matter how big your bread is, it will be limited by the pot in which it was burned.
The future we hope for is like this big cake, whether we can bake a satisfactory "big cake" depends entirely on the "pot" -this is the "pattern" of wei.
What is pattern, pattern refers to a person's vision, mind, courage, such as psychological elements of the internal layout!
Have what pattern, have what destiny!
Have the big pattern person: have the open mind, have no because of the environment of disadvantageous but false from the Philippines, more have no because of ability of inadequacy but abandon oneself to despair.
Have a small pattern: often because life is not satisfactory and complain, because a little frustration on the helpless, looking at the problem is often a blind eye to see mount tai, become mediocre.
Pattern is not big enough, life achievement is limited again!
Three outcomes of a pomegranate seed:
Put it in a pot and it will grow no more than half a meter high! If you put it in a pot, it will grow to more than one meter high! If you plant it in a yard, it will grow to four or five meters!
"Limit" is a person to set their own "game" too small!
The height that the life can reach, often be the height that people choose for oneself psychologically. If one never thinks of reaching the top, then he will never succeed!
A person's pattern is often fed by humiliation and hurt
"Being scolded is an ability." How much injustice, how much to do; How much slander you can bear, how much praise you can bear; Can withstand loneliness, to keep busy.
If you can treat each humiliation and injury as a nutritious treat you need to change, you can definitely feed your pattern. Otherwise, after the incident, others will only remember your outburst, but do not remember the reason, only leave others the impression that you are not tolerant enough.
In the workplace, we don't have the option of avoiding humiliation; However, when humiliation comes, you do not have to fear, as long as you can train yourself, each time hurt, have the ability to reinvent themselves, will be able to break out of the cocoon in the workplace, and you swallow the humiliation and injury, is worth it.
Who can swallow more grievance, who has the right to speak. When you open up, you will be able to take on more important tasks than others, your boss will have more trust in you, and your words will carry more weight.
Great things are made
Feng lun said, great is out of the boil. Why boil?
Because ordinary people can not bear the grievance you have to bear, ordinary people need others to understand comfort and encouragement, but you do not. Ordinary people vent their emotions by resisting negative criticism, but you must see love and light and learn to transmute and digest everything. Ordinary people need a shoulder to lean on when they are weak, and you are the shoulder that others rely on.
Remember, grievance is often accompanied by a drive, but the drive to prove yourself is not the low-down revenge of the eight o 'clock show.
At his inauguration, Mr. Mandela invited three of his jailers, who he said had taught him to control his emotions and deal with the pain of suffering, to stand up in full view of them.
This act, which was respected by the people present and around the world, not only humiliated the white south africans who had abused him for many years, but also showed mandela's extraordinary tolerance and pattern. It goes without saying who has the right to speak.
In the face of injustice, you really don't need to care too much about the eyes of others, as long as you remember, always responsible for their own life, in this world, destined to suffer many grievances, you have to learn to laugh it off, you have to learn to detached from it, you have to learn to transform potential energy.
Remember: I am the root of everything, want to change everything, first to change yourself! A word to my dear friends: what you swallow is humiliation, but what you feed is your pattern. What kind of injustice you suffer determines what kind of person you can become
