Shit happens and now it’s time to move on. But what should you do? Well this heartbroken, emotional gaybie will tell you seven things to do after you've been dumped 🏳️🌈✨
1. Realize and reflect on your self worth
Girl, (or guy or whatever of the genders you identify with) you’re better than that and you should realize it!! You don’t need them in your life. In fact, you will find someone better and more compatible for you down the line. Just please be patient and continue on with life. Everything will be fine.
2. Get ripped
It’s a common stereotype for girls to eat their emotions while dudes release their anger out in the gym and look delicious by the summer. Girls, I know food is great but lets give our mind and body what it deserves! Your next partner will thank you for it later.
3. Don’t get drunk
Because you will drunk text your ex. You've done it before. You've always regretted it so why would it be a good idea this time? You’re better than that.
4. Hang out with your friends again
I know you completely abandoned your friends while you were head over heels with this girl. It’s now time to be that stereotype and come crawling back to your friends once again. Your friends get it. They will understand. They’ve been in your shoes before and you've helped them when it was their time. Your friends are your friends. They will be there through thick and thin. It’s okay.
5. Go out there and do
Go out there and just fucking do! Keep yourself busy and don’t just lay in bed waiting for something magical to happen because nothing will fucking happen. Pick up more hours at work, pick up a new job or hobby. Something productive!! Playing GTA and becoming a millionaire in Los Santos doesn't count. You've done it. Girls aren’t impressed with you virtual lambos and ferraries.
6. You’re fucking great so make new friends and put yourself out there
It’s time to transfer that effort you had in that relationship into your relationship with others. Hang out with your friends more. Tell your family you love them. Don’t let your ex’s thoughts and ideas about you get wrapped up in your head. Share your potential with others because there are plenty of people who will love you and your company.
7. Don’t get back with your ex
This one is critical. You miss what was once there but guess what? It’s gone now. Things will never be the same. What you want isn’t your ex. You just want to fill that lonely void with something… ANYTHING!! Whatever you do, just don’t fill it with an ex. Maybe a one night stand with someone from the bar could do but an ex will just complicate things all over again. Learn from your mistakes and please be strong.
So that’s my two cents on what to do after you’ve just been dumped. I'm so thankful that I even have an outlet for my thoughts after my heart is still semi broken.
Let me know if you disagree with anything I said or something I completely missed. Let’s spread some love and help all of the Steemers that have been dumped or are currently dealing with heartbreak.
Sorry for such the slightly negative post but there will be more positive vibes to come. Promise guys!!
Much Love!!❤️✨