Greetings, give

Great text recognizing the role of a good mother. His problem is that he recognizes the role of a mother who is good to her children. As a psychologist, I want to talk about narcissistic mothers.

Usually these mothers are focused on their own world, have no empathy for their children, and the only voice they hear is their own. children are never heard and receive little or no affection.

"Belief that mother is sacred creates in children helplessness, for if one hears from everyone that mother is sacred, does everything for a child and what son has to forgive all her faults, he feels helpless and can not react, because your complaint (sadness) is never validated.

They tend to use their child (ren) as an extension of their desires, creating a series of manipulations to get the child to be trapped inside an invisible prison (mother's wills). Because the son does not perceive this manipulation, he tends to suffer eternally, because his wills are always annulled and he will never be able to create a sense of autonomy, because he will always think about what his mother would do in a given situation.

To break this manipulation, these children need therapy to realize that they are being manipulated and that their lives are up to them. The decisions they make in life, as well as their outcomes, are theirs alone.

These mothers, in my opinion, should never be revered.

Thanks for the text and good evening !!!