Some actions can change your life for the better, but because you’re too cautious and you constantly avoid hesitate, you might miss your chance. Happiness isn’t possible for those who live a passive life. You have to act, to form your own destiny.
Although comfort is desirable for everyone, you will feel a lot better when you’ll challenge yourself to do new and risky things. That’s when you’ll get to know your true potential, and once you’ll take your life in your hands and leave your comfort zone, you’ll discover a few universal truths.
Even if you’re going in the right direction, you can have doubts
When you want to do something new you might be deceived by fear, that can make you believe that you’re doing the wrong choice. The problem is that, when facing a new situation, you might feel insecure and anxious.
But if you accept your fear and you don’t allow it to take your motivation away, half of the fight is already won. Don’t treat fear like a red light in traffic, treat it like something that lights your way.
If you don’t listen to someone’s advice, it doesn’t mean that you don’t love them
It’s important to have people around you that will support you in difficult situations. But not every advice you receive will do you a favor. Although they will support you in some of your ideas, they will reject others, mostly because they will be afraid to lose you to a new lifestyle.
The best gift you could offer yourself is to become the owner of your life. The best gift you could offer to other people is to let them live their life freely.
You might be considered crazy before you’ll be respected for what you’re doing
You have to try to do things that scare you. You can start with small actions, but make sure they’re different from your old lifestyle. Do some volunteering, wear bright colors.
Think about the people you admire. Every one of them had to change their vision about life at some point. They challenged themselves and they changed their lives into something beautiful that is now respected and admired by others.
You can combine wishes with priorities
We tend to believe that we should only choose one thing out of 10, but the truth is that we can combine them. You don’t have to give up your career to have a family, you can find a balance between them.
But for this to be possible, you have to overcome difficult situations and never lose your trust in yourself. The biggest mistake someone could make is to expand their comfort zone instead of leaving it. Also, don’t you ever think that your age is a problem. It’s never too early or too late to live your dream life.