What does it matter who is stronger, smarter, more beautiful, richer? Ultimately, it matters whether you are happy or not.
The desire to be extraordinary - this is a very common desire. To relax and be ordinary - that's really unusual.
We are all unique. Never ask anyone what is right and what - not. Life is an experiment in which it is necessary to clarify what is right and what is wrong. Sometimes you can do wrong, but that gives you the relevant experience from which you will benefit.
People take everything so seriously that it becomes a burden for them. Learn to laugh more. For me, laughter is as holy as prayer.
You change at any moment. You are a river. Now it flows in one direction and climate. Tomorrow - is another. I have never seen the same person twice. The face changes. It is constantly changing. But you must have insightful eyes to see this.
Listen more consciously. Wake up. When you feel tired, push. Yourself and not the other. Open your eyes. Wake up. Listen again. The one who can be happy alone is a true person. If your happiness depends on others, you are a slave, you are not free!
Those who interfere with you do not know what they are doing. They are sleeping. There is no consciousness in them. They deny everything without knowing what is really good. There are always such. They pull you down, because the more you rise, the more they see their weakness. They're jealous.
If you do not become an example to them, who else? The bad thing is, as you say, there are people who are close to us. There is no way, you can not please those who do not know what they want. The only thing you can do is to become an example to them. Those who have eyes - will see it. Those who truly love you - will understand you.
There are many people who, while saying "I love you", mean - "do not break my peace, do the job for me, hold me, give me money, obey me."
If someone truly loves you, you will feel it in your heart. True love is just one. It has no variations. It does not matter what others say. It matters what you do.
Shake like the sun and then others will come to warm themselves. And those who do not want - that's their choice. The sun shines without considering who wants it. It shines because it was born.
Osho
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