You are the captain of your own ship, and you need to steer your life in the direction you want to go towards. Don’t wait for your magical fairy godmother to show up and suddenly change your life… because if you do, you will be waiting forever.
It is easy to make excuses in life and blame others for your failures. I am not immune to this, and I sadly admit, sometimes I do wallow in my own pity party. It is okay, to feel upset when life doesn’t go the way you want it to. That’s the beauty of life, it is unpredictable and full of surprises. While you can’t control if life decides to throw hail and lighting your direction, you are in control of your actions and mentality. If you choose to mope, that is your choice. If you choose to do nothing to change the situation, that is your choice.
When life gives you lemons, you make fucking lemonade! (yes cheesy, I know, but it is true) Make a plan and go for it. Even if you are not successful, you will learn something about yourself, and you will build value in your life. You are in complete control of your own life. Stop waiting for someone to lead you down a path. We are all in charge of our own destiny’s. What is it that you want to do it?