Why are people so scared to ask for help? Some common reasons why people are scared to ask for help are:
#1. They don’t want to burden others
#2. They are scared to be judged by others
#3. Their pride gets in the way
I personally believe that asking for what you want in life, is a good thing. People thrive in communities for a reason; people help other people rise above. While you can do many things alone, when you work in teams, often the success of the group is far greater.
The ability to ask for help is a skill. It may be awkward or make you feel uncomfortable to admit you might not know everything and that you need help. You just need to get out of your own way! There are so many kind and generous people out there that want to help you! Think of a time you helped someone; didn’t you feel good helping out? When you ask for help you, not only do you benefit, but the other person on the other end also benefits. Potentially, you could even make a new friend!
Asking also creates opportunities. Letting the universe know your intentions and what you are looking for in life can help you get to where you want to be faster. Other people cannot read your mind, and you shouldn’t expect them too.
https://www.ted.com/talks/amanda_palmer_the_art_of_asking
*In this Ted Talk by Amanda Palmer, she talks about the art of asking. I was really inspired and moved by her speech.
*In my acroyoga community, we are always asking to play with each other, and for others to help keep us safe in new moves. Although it is not shown in this photo, we actually had 3 other people supporting us making sure all of our flyers were safe in this photo. If we never asked for help, it would have been very dangerous to get into and out of the pose safely. Plus, we would not have had the ability to get creative and come up with new acro poses!
I hope this post encourages you to give other people a chance! Be brave and ask for what you need!