When it come to decision making, especially those big and long-term decision, I could not help, but to hesitate and confused. Both choices seem to be equally good. Good, but simply not perfect enough. Something is missing. If only, I could have all the gain from both choices, without any pain from the duo.
I do not wish to take any responsibility out of the choice we make. I avoid the decision making process with any means. I will only choose the "perfect choice" that will offer me "best conditions" for me, with a "sure certainty" of success rate. Or else, I will just wait.
There will never be any perfect choice or condition. Nothing is perfect. Everything has its own pros and cons. Every value you want comes with a price.
Waiting and avoiding from making decision, or refusal to carry responsibility out of your decision will not get you the "perfect choice" you want. You will end up wasting your time within the period of dilemma. You do not create any value for yourself or others, within this period of dilemma.
Good choices come to you when you are ready, when you are strong and matured enough to pay the equivalent price. If you are not ready, good things will not last long.
How to be ready?
You will never be ready, follow your heart, your deep inner voice. Have the courage to make a choice. Have the courage to face the responsibility from the choice you made. You only truly learn to be better version of yourself yesterday by facing and enduring the choice you made.
The worst choice you will ever make in your life, is not making any choice.