a. You will realize that if there is anyone who can change your life it's YOU.
There are 7 billion people in this world, but if there is any person that can change your life, it's you. You might have 100s of friends in Facebook or thousands of followers on Instagram, but they are of no use. Your friends will eventually go their own way. You might think your GIRLFRIEND will be there for you forever. WRONG. If you are broke and can't achieve anything in life, she will eventually leave you. THE TRUTH ABOUT THE WORLD IS NO ONE CARES ABOUT A LOSER. So if you want to live a life you want start working hard; no one will do it for you. That's what makes you a man.
b. Your will start to value your FAMILY.
Your FAMILY is your well-wisher. They are self-less and care for you. BOYS are arrogant and want to RUN away from family, but when you are a MAN you will value your FAMILY more. You will start to give them more time and appreciate for what they have done for you.
c. BOYS look out for SEX. MEN look for RELATIONSHIP.
SEX is overrated. Getting laid isn't the greatest thing in the world. It is a momentary pleasure that releases some hormone and you are done, but RELATIONSHIP they last forever. When you become a man, you will give your time for RELATION and not for PORN.
d. It is OK for MAN to CRY.
As you start getting older and transit from a BOY to MAN, you will realize that TEARS doesn't make you WEAK, rather they make you stronger. Your masculinity isn't defined from your BODY or your SIZE, but rather from your EMOTION and who you are. If a MAN cries after a broken relationship, he is the best person in the world because he understood the value of LOVE and RELATIONSHIP which BOYS don't.
e. MEN say SORRY.
When you become a MAN, you realize your mistakes and accept them. You accept who you are and value what you have. MEN try to BUILD themselves, but BOYS try to SHOW themselves and it is perfectly fine to say SORRY and accept your MISTAKES while building yourself.
f. You will start to read BOOKS rather than watch PORN.
As you become a MAN you realize that BOOKS are greater than anything in this world. You will start to build yourself by reading BOOKS. What defines a MAN isn't his BICEPS or PUSHUPS, but rather his intellect and knowledge. You will start to read fictions and biographies, politics and economics, government and love stories; you will realize that BOOKS are the greatest weapon in this world. PORN is for weak BOYS who haven't realized the meaning of LIFE and TIME.
g. You will start to use STEEMIT more than you use FACEBOOK and INSTAGRAM. :)
When you are a MAN, you will realize that FACEBOOK likes and INSTAGRAM followers are hoax. They don't BUILD you; they don't make you BETTER and what doesn't make you better are waste of time. You will start to write on STEEMIT rather than spending time on writing LOVE QUOTES on FACEBOOK. You will start to follow intellects on STEEMIT rather than spending time STALKING girls on social media sites. You will start to read stories about SCIENCE and INSPIRATION, TECHNOLOGY and RELIGION, POLITICS and GOVERNMENT rather than reading MEME posts on social-media sites.
YOU WILL BE A MAN WHEN YOU STOP TAKING LIFE FOR GRANTED.
Cheers!!!!!
-KarnifeX