Healthy relationships are hard to find these days! If you are currently in a relationship, you should see if yours has these qualities. Or if you are looking for a relationship, Make sure to find a relationship with these qualities.
You Always Do All The Giving
Relationships are about giving, And by giving I mean what you Give. Your partner should never have to give anything. Imbalance leads to an exciting and fulfilling relationship. So expect absolutely nothing from the relationship, Give all. If they try to give in return, Then find someone else. Because they don't value you very much. If they are trying to give you something, That means they expect you to "take" from them. And that's offensive.
You Are Always Judged
You should feel good knowing that your partner is always judging you.
If you are listening to a weird song, and it sounds funny. Feel good knowing that your partner is making assumptions about who you are as a person because you listen to that song.
Judging is very important in relationships. It's important to find someone who is perfect. If their tastes don't align 100% with yours, They aren't worth hanging on to.
Are You Happy around them?
Being in a relationship means struggling as much as possible. You should NEVER be happy in a relationship, and if you are, That means something is wrong. When you feel happy around your partner, That means you need to start a fight. Try to find any petty thing that you can to get mad at them for.
Did they forget to take out the garbage? Did they forget to send you a goodnight text? Those are great reasons to cause a really bad argument. Make sure it drags on for days, So you don't have to look for another reason to be angry.
Do you compromise?
Compromising kills relationships, Why would you compromise when you can give your partner 100% of what they want? Always refuse to compromise, Because your desires are less important than your partners. This is why they always deserve to get exactly what they want!
Are You Allowed To Have Friends?
If you want to be in a healthy relationship, It's important that you stop talking to other people completely. Your partner is supposed to be the only one in your life. When you talk to other people, you are betraying your significant other.
You shouldn't speak to any family members or friends ever again! In fact, Don't even look at other people in public, Because that can be considered cheating! Relationships are about ownership, And now that you are dating, Your partner owns you. If your partner allows you to have friends in addition to dating them, That's a BIG red flag!