What happened to being original, Different and exciting?
These days we all do the same things, Have the same lifestyle. Some of us blindly follow what others are doing because we can't seem to be different from everyone else.
Being a follower later makes us regret most of our lives. Regret can be hard to deal with.
Not Everything Will Work For You
I realized this when I was trying to start my own business; There were so many steps by step guides, Which seemed comfortable enough. So I followed them. Often I didn't get the same results as they had.
Just because something worked for someone else, Doesn't mean it will work for you.
I'm not saying you shouldn't look up the necessary steps to accomplish the goals that you have, You absolutely should.
But don't expect the same results every time. Sometimes you'll need to step out of your comfort zone and look for alternative pathways to success.
Everyone Blends In
Especially if you are starting your own business or brand, Going to a job interview, Or even just a date.
If you look just like everyone else, Do you think you'll be memorable?
When you stand out at least a little bit, you will be remembered, and it will raise your chances of getting what you want.
When I went to a tour of the faculty of my old work. I wanted to get my job back. So even though it was just a tour of a dirty warehouse, I put on a nice outfit and did my hair. When I was there, I was openly enthusiastic about being there and the job that I would be doing.
And it was noticed... Everyone else who was touring the faculty with me, Looked like they wanted to be someplace else.
I kept noticing the tour lady eyeing me, And making small talk with me. While she wasn't doing that with anyone else.
I ended up getting the job easily.
That's the same with products online. If you see the same thing over and over, Are you more likely to pick the one that looks like all the other ones? Or the one that comes in cool colors or styles?
Different Is Refreshing
Life can be repetitive; Sometimes we get bored. Having someone new, Fun and unique can increase our happiness. Sometimes changing it up is a lot of fun. Why be like everyone else when you can be authentically yourself? Try new things, Expand your boundaries. Don't be like everyone else. You don't have to be.