It is quite natural to feel close and connected to your soul mate. But, after a period of time, especially after the honeymoon period ends, it is crunch time, when you need to know whether you both are right for each other or not. There are certain signs that will notify you that your soul mate is not who you think they are.

Aren’t you your true self in front of your partner?

When you are in a relationship, and you feel that you have hide some of your real self from the other person, he/she is not the one for you. You have to be comfortable with your partner, the way you are beautiful, weird, funny, goofy and so on. If your partner demands you to change yourself or indirectly make you feel that you don’t fit in his/her world, the whole relationship is a red flag.

You both disagree on major aspects of life

In case, you and your partner disagree on the main topics like financial handling, physical intimacy, kids, religion, or any other aspects, things might not work out the way you have planned. Whenever there are topics on which you both have different opinions and thoughts, it is quite a challenging task to avoid debates, that might get ugly and result in quarrels and verbal fights. When you two are not clicking on the majority of the aspects of life, he/she is not the one who you think is.
Is your partner available emotionally when you want the most?
Whether it is your best or the worst of time, you will definitely want your partner to be around you. Someone who is emotionally not available to you or is not willing to, especially, during your difficult time, he/she is the right partner for you. A healthy and happy relationship demands of both the partners to be emotionally available for each other whenever the situation demands. Holding hands together, even when not physically present, is a vital element of a happy relationship.

Trusting each is paramount in a successful relationship

When trust and reliability are the issue, a relationship cannot sustain for long. In case your partner is unable to trust you for things in life, you must understand that he/she is not the right person for you. Once the foundation of trust is not built in a relationship, it is quite a challenging task for both the partners to respect or believe each other.