Hello reader, we will have a short but serious conversation. Get comfortable and turn on the brain! And so we will study love from a biological point of view. I'm convinced that love is a biochemical process in the human brain
Moreover, the biochemistry of sexual love has long been studied and the role of this or that substance in the emergence of LOVE has been proved. By the way! ORGASM has the same reinforcing, motivating value in the structure of love.
NEEDS
All of our behavior, whether it's finding a job, walking with a woman in the Park or cooking is subject to one simple scheme …. NORMAL HUMAN PHYSIOLOGY.
Scheme:
- THERE IS A NEED -
- MOTIVATION, FOR THE SATISFACTION OF NEEDS -
- THE ADOPTION OF BRAIN SOLUTIONS -
- PERFORMING CERTAIN ACTIONS -
Further, if the need is considered satisfied, the brain gives us a dose of substances that form a positive emotion! (noradrenaline, dopamine). If the result is not obtained at all, the need is not satisfied....
The brain reacts to this with only negative emotions: annoyance, sense of loss, guilt, sadness.
This is the mechanism of our behavior.
There are a lot of human needs. Catastrophically a lot.
And not all needs can be realized independently. For example, to realize sexual needs need a partner.
WHERE DOES LOVE BEGIN?
Let's imagine. The brain forces us to fulfill our needs and if we are lucky, it rewards us with positive emotions. But to realize a huge part of the needs required objects, exclusive and rare …. The brain analyzes it.
And the search and binding of the necessary objects becomes one of the needs.
The scheme is formed: lack of the necessary object (person) causes discomfort, we are looking for and one day we find it.
What do we get in case of luck?
Right, joy and happiness.
But the brain is even trickier. He gives us positive emotions not only on the fact of finding such an object, but also in advance….
We saw a cool bag in the store. Want!!!
We saw an interesting man (woman) at the party. Want!!!
Already at this stage we get positive emotions.
Really, half of the work is done, a specific object is found.
What's the next?
We learn the fact that the object can satisfy one or two of our needs, which will cause to rise “mood”.
But it turns out that already adored object can satisfy even more motivations
or a very important motivation like sex. It excites us more. The brain explodes joy, gushing hormones of happiness!
Is it possible to miss such a value???? No way!!!!
And so the butterflies in your stomach multiply in geometric progression and we fly on the wings of love in pink glasses, to meet this wonderful object!
And sounds loud
I LOVE YOU!
Yes, this is it, praised by all poets, philosophers, lyricists of all kinds
CONCLUSION.
. LOVE is a strong positive emotional attraction to an object that potentially or actually implements some of our motivations.
-The end of the first part -