Self-sufficiency and life harmony
Why do women want to be self-sufficient? Many will answer: to achieve their own in everything and everywhere, after all, despite the fact that the mind and beauty are their strong trump cards, they are useless if the soil constantly leaves from under the feet.
To become a self-sufficient woman means to learn how to control your inner forces. Only in this way can you not only fight against your shortcomings, but also be able to make them work for you!
When a person becomes self-sufficient, he gets rid of a feeling of envy and hatred. Bright and successful personalities themselves become objects of envy and discussion.
How to become a self-sufficient person? It is necessary to feel absolute prosperity with all your heart. Find time to stop, think, love yourself and show respect and due attention to yourself. Fill your "black holes" where you feel emptiness.
This is not very difficult - you should just wish it. The only person who knows you better than anyone else and is able to love, respect, appreciate and accept the way you are is to yourself until the end of your life! And as soon as you become truly self-sufficient, the rest begin to reach out to you, like a button to a magnet.
How to become self-sufficient? Main rules
If you do not experience emotional dependence or have already successfully disposed of it - well done! But you do not need to rest on your laurels for a long time, you still have a lot of hard work on yourself. There are several important rules on the way to becoming a self-sufficient person.
No authorities. Do not think that someone is better (stronger, smarter) than you. Everyone is at their own stage of the journey. If someone today has reached more than you, then, at this point, they just passed more than a few steps.
Lose pride. Do not think that you are better than someone (stronger, more worthy). It happens that a person helps another to feel the power and influence. But pride is a vice that prevents one from reaching his own. It is capable of frightening away your benefactors and certainly will not tell you how to become a truly self-sufficient person. Show people how important they are to you - learn how to ask.
Kill the past. Thinking that you have a terrible past, you allow it to eat you from the inside, creating in you those gaping holes through which your self-sufficiency flows. If the past is negative, direct energy for the future.
Stop ceasing to be sorry. All unhappy in their own way, and you are especially unhappy ... Urgently stop! The unhappy will never be self-sufficient, if only because then no one will regret him. Those who refuse to feel sorry for themselves open up a hidden reserve.
Do not lie to yourself. Lying is still appropriate for salvation, but one should never lie to oneself. On my own example I can say: until I began to engage in creativity, I convinced myself that this is for those who have time and wind in their heads. Now I have stopped self-deception and open my creativity, because I realized: in order to become self-sufficient and successful person, you need to stop lying to yourself and do what your calling is.
