There is a saying that the 3 biggest temptations of men are Treasure, Throne, and Woman. All three are touted as the culprit against the destruction and resurrection of a man. Indeed, many facts have made the saying true. A man who is tempted by these three things will melt and lose direction. But there is one thing unique, have you ever thought that the three elements are one unity?
Of the few cases I have observed, a man who allows himself to be tempted by one of the three "Ta" will have an effect on the other "Ta". Yep, one for all, and all for one. These three elements are a domino effect that makes men lose direction.
Let's take an example, suppose a man already has treasures in his hand. Then he will be easily tempted to spend the treasure to get women. Regardless he already has a wife or a woman he has or not. It is natural and the desire of a man. However, that does not mean that I support it. Or he can also spend his fortune to gain far greater power. Whether the power is in terms of business, bureaucracy, and influence in society.
Especially if a man has a throne. The throne makes access to treasures and ladies fluent unbelievably. One who has a throne, let's say a king. Then he will be able to withdraw taxes, make laws, do wars in order to increase his property. The kings of the world are also known to have Harems, or places where he has many women who are able to comfort him. No one opposes it, because he is a king.
Then what about women? Does having a woman also be able to encourage a man to get another?
The answer is of course yes. A woman can determine the life and death of a man. That's why there is a saying, "Behind the success of a man, there must be a woman who supports it." The saying can also be played, "Behind the destruction of a man, there must be a woman who causes it." Why so?
I once heard a man with a pretty good job finally jailed for corruption. And the reason he did the corruption is very trivial. Because his wife encouraged him to do so. Probably not pushing directly, but by way of intimidation and coaxing. For example, "Papa, mama friend is there who bought a car with her husband. Daddy do not want to be like that? "It was a simple sentence, but so piercing for the man. For some women, treasure is a symbol of affection given to him by the husband. Though the concept of thinking like that is wrong. Indeed, having excess treasures is not wrong, but if not then, worthy and harmonious living is much more important.
Women can also encourage men to reach the throne. Either it is done directly, or indirectly. What I mean by direct is with the seduction as I have exemplified in the matter of treasure above. While by indirect means such as rejection of a woman to men.
A man whose self-esteem is torn to prove that he is worthy or should be worthy of the woman he wants. And the feasibility factor can be measured using the throne. In history, there are many male figures who reach their power because they want to prove themselves to women. Napoleon Bonaparte is one of them. He once wanted to apply for a captain's son, but his application was denied because Napoleon was then only a corporal. A few years later, the woman seemed to regret that the man she had once rejected was not just a general, but the new Emperor to France.
In short, the three elements above are a vicious circle. When a man pursues one thing, he will be pursued by two other things. How can a man get out of that vicious cycle? The answer is not! You do have to go inside and face it. 'Once you get into Blach Hole, then you can not go out again - Stephen Hawking'. That's why this way of life works. You just have to try to balance between the three things, suppress your passions, and try to keep thinking positive.