As a thought, also plan the Bye Bye Ceremony, Where, Who will do the Ceremony, who will tell lies about how good you were, what hymns, songs will be sung, who does the "Tote-ing"
This can be left lying around, and be updated as time goes by.
[our kids keep arguing between themselves who is the worst kid. that one has to empty Dads shed. 2nd has to do Mums cups and stuff.