I understand that you believe that the person you have become is the most acceptable person, so it makes up for who you are. But I ask you, do you really feel comfortable with who you are today? I bet you do not, since many of us live a cardboard life that covers the diamond inside you.
It is not a secret that an authentic person always loves because in some way that person is what they want to be and it does not matter what people, from their perspective, think or pi, without affecting at all the criticisms and offenses that may come from outside.
An alpha male is the one who does not fear being himself, but not only him, but his improved version that improves day after day learning from his mistakes.I do not say that you are deaf or indifferent to what others think, I only say that you are proactive, because a proactive person lives in harmony and can achieve the success that we all want.
When someone is who they want to be, they wake up every morning thinking "what new ideas will I have today?" Or "What will this wonderful day bring me?" When you have the purpose of getting up every morning motivated by the passion you have inside to go out and give the world what you have to offer, because you know that what you offer will be received by people who will respect you and also offer you their knowledge.
Be yourself, but as someone positive, who can risk entering strange worlds and situations, there are many fools who let their lives pass so that in the end, when they are on a stretcher, when they can barely breathe, they think: "What? would it happen? if ...? "And from this thought I want you to reflect if you are directing to fulfill your dreams.
There is nothing more beautiful than authentic, so take the plastic and the cold, which has nothing real and go out into the world to discover what it really has to offer. Many times I blame the films for limiting people who show themselves as a source of wonders, but the real wonders are out there, waiting for you, but it's your decision to sit without doing anything or doing what you want.
image: from my phone