From first love to marriage is what many people dream of. But in real life, it is often not so perfect. Most people often go through more than one love affair before they are fully mature enough to take on family responsibilities.
Once in love, is a story in the process of growing up, no matter good or sad, it is the past. However, your attitude towards your predecessor is not a thing of the past, it even relates to the height of your life's love.
The following three attitudes towards their predecessors lead three kinds of love to totally different endings, hoping that those who do not know how to deal with the relationship with their predecessors will be able to learn from them.Some people think they are more "long-term", even in the past long love, they still miss it.
Instead of becoming passers-by with their predecessors, such people tend to like to cultivate their predecessors into lovers.
Past feelings interfere with the present feelings, paper can not wrap fire, this kind of joyful things do too much, will always be found by the current or even his wife.
When the relationship breaks down, the current man will become his predecessor again, and the man will start to fall into a new stage of two boats.
In fact, this kind of feeling is not infatuation at all, at most it is indiscriminate.
Although overflowing feelings can make men enjoy the pleasure of stepping on two boats for a while, there is always a time when the boat capsized.
At this time, the overflow of feelings will become a flood, destroying the current love.
Such a man is actually very sad, he thought that he was loved by everyone, in fact, none of them would give him heart.Lotus root broken silk, think that deceived the pillow people, in fact, love has already buried the root of suspicion.
Some people, who are thieves, do not have the courage to do anything extraordinary with their predecessors, but enjoy the ambiguity if there is No.
He or she will not be physically derailed, but the important moments of his or her predecessors are always accompanied by his or her courteous presence.
He or she thinks it's nothing to comfort his or her predecessor on Wechat. It's not really what he or she did to give a small gift at an important time.
But I don't know, the people around me have already taken away the trust.
Love is exclusive, knowing that the other party has many predecessors, this matter itself has made many people resent.
If you keep in touch with your predecessor, even seemingly unimportant connections can completely deprive your partner of trust in your partner at the moment.
This kind of mood will accumulate in the other half's heart and become the fuse of arguing anytime, anywhere.It's easiest to harvest your true love if you love another person thoroughly and completely.
Some people can see clearly in their emotional life that they love seriously when they love. Since they decide to separate, they will cut it off once and for all, and they will not return to contact when they miss.
This kind of person loves wholeheartedly and thoroughly, and when he loves the next person, he also loves wholeheartedly. Instead of having one person in your heart and falling in love with another person.
Only if you are wholehearted, can you ask the other party to give wholehearted love. Although there are predecessors, it is absolutely unambiguous to cut the knife, can give partners a strong sense of security.
This kind of person, the easiest to get the other half unreservedly pay, and ultimately harvest your true love, so as to reach the peak of love.In short, the predecessor, the present, is a topic that many people are entangled with. In fact, as long as you think clearly, there is no need to entangle at all. Because no matter how perfect the previous love is, it's gone.
What's more, it's just your fantasy of perfection. If it's really perfect, you won't miss it. And your task at this moment is always to live in the present and manage the love you can hold in your hand.
Only in this way can you harvest the person who is sincere and with you after the end of youth and before marriage hall, and get the ultimate love together.