Your post was lovely. No, one should not accept blame for landing a narcopath. Narcopath's are so extremely deceptive that anyone can have the misfortune to land them. And they hurt and destroy and don't care and it's not pretty. Not at all.

Well done for your beautiful insight. I hope someone will take light from this.

I have one rule for finding a Narcopath. The depth of which they will allow me inside their bubble. Narcopaths have no depth. They lure you with sweet nothings - but have no substance, no depth, no nothing. You'll hear about everyone else's misgivings, though.

Simple question: So, how have you fucked up in life then? I mean, we've all done it.

If they don't answer - run a faaarking mile :)