Sometimes you see a person and think he has no good looks, but then you come to know him and you grow used to his looks and somehow you find something attracting you to his innermost self. It's the power of having a soul and a mind and finding beauty in their soul because that's permanent. Your flesh will rot away your soul won't. Unless you don't believe in having a soul lol.
I don't believe in this maneuver of turning yourself into something else, in the name of the process of becoming attractive enough. There is always an irresistible beauty that raw thoughts and honest actions contain –and that's what it's all about. Let's be blatantly honest to each other, just sometimes and let each other know handful about the rose gardens and graves in our heads. Let's not keep our "I love you"s and warm hugs for later.
Because, why not?