FOR A FLOWER LIVE YOU HAVE TO CARE AND LOVE IT
He loves me or he does not love me, does it happen that feel when someone wants them for a few moments nothing more? This is a question that often invades our minds, difficult but necessary. And when we realize that the people around you or who once had you, do not love us it is hard to believe those who do not love us and repeatedly follow these types of relation, as it leads to a loss of self-esteem that makes us start to believe less and less.
The truth is that not all people act the same, and sometimes some of those behaviors may be due to other factors. When someone just does not love you, you begin to notice that:
You feel bad for asking him to spend some time with you and feel as if you were begging, and do not feel that way because if you really feel it is because at some point that person let you know and nobody in the world should beg or time nor love on the contrary because when there is really interest Mondays become Saturdays and so the busiest person on earth will always look for the way to spend a moment with you. In this life there are always priorities and you are one of them, do not let yourself be treated as an option.
Another point is that it does not support you in your decisions or rather does not care about their attitudes of indifference and is that the opposite of love is not hatred is indifference, they say that love has two enemies which are the indifference that kills slowly like disappointment
The next thing is that that person does not value your opinion and thinks that he or she is the only one that is valid, that they never ask for your opinion is absurd because your opinion is as important as your since it is part of you. And beyond all is respect and may not share the same but respect your opinion, your beliefs, your position, your life, that do not agree on some things is normal, but do not let the noise of the opinions of others quench your inner voice.
This is one of the most important, at least for me, and that is that this person is not there when you need it most and in his agenda there is no place for you when you want your needs. And you really want to see it, but if that person does not do anything to be near you, it does not matter, there is no worse blind than the one who does not want to see. Do not continue, because it is good once and it is understandable but many times not, do not continue allowing it because there is no lack of time there is a lack of interest.
Another is when they do not have any detail with you and I do not mean material things. Unfortunately, there are many couples who do not show the feeling when they believe or feel sure of what they have and the truth is to see you always available and delivered all the time people abuse that and believe that we will always be there.
It feels that it is above you because you have given it so much power that you do not feel that you are not up to it and this is also a low self-esteem, and although you do not believe that plays a fundamental part in your actions and emotions.
The next is that he does not want the best for you without him or her losing something, that is, putting their needs before yours. It does not make you feel good with comments, it does not usually have positive and pleasant messages towards you, it seems that it is only based on the bad things you have as your faults, mistakes and manages to put them before all the good things you have achieved, the beautiful what you have, and the worst of all is that we came to believe it. You deserve someone who does not make you question whether he loves you or not.
Each word ignites a world of feelings and emotions.
