Always after so many setbacks and many disappointments that day when you become a little colder than you used to be, when you decide that nothing will be the same again because you get tired of being hurt and once you fail and they destroy you inside of you I can not forget it because it marks you and that's where you start to loving you more than yourself, but almost always those around us can not understand this internal change and that is when they begin to value the person we were before becoming a little cold. Who says that people can not change fails because human beings do not change their behavior or their way of being so quickly, because the process of changing ourselves is something more intimate because more than change, we grow.

Be a cold person is not a defeat, it's more like a defense mechanism, and the truth for me is sometimes good so they learn to value you and miss the person you once were.

It is fundamental that we ourselves are capable of developing our own survival processes, because people change by necessity and to survive more effectively.

It is not necessary either that we experience great events of great blow to be able to change because it is also enough for us only the day-to-day mood of our lives, like the frequent disappointments, of all the time giving everything without receiving anything in return, that small or great things that little by little make you change little by little and that create emotional gaps.

Be a cold person is the mind who have tired of waiting for so long, waiting for you to begin to value who you are, is your own self-esteem that also tires one more time. Be a cold person is the response to the disagreement of life, is to put barriers to sprout that self-love again.

And that's where they come to ask where is the person we used to be before, but the truth is that they do not analyze themselves and do not think because we had to change. But I learned that things are not always what we want them to be, and that sooner or later you will have to accept them and face things.

Sometimes everything that fades and dies inside brings back to us the reality that is a heart a little cooler and prudent and for me there is nothing wrong with it because change is growing and gaining in dignity.